-Elder,Abba Isaac writes,No kind of repentance that takes place
after the removal of our free will will be a well-spring of joy,nor
will it be reckoned for the reward of those who possess it.
How can anyone repent without exercising his own free will?
-One may be forced to repent,having fallen in the eyes of others
around him,but such repentance has no humility.This is how I
-Do you mean that there is repentance that is not voluntary?
-Yes,it is compulsory repentance.I ask you to forgive me for some harm I have caused to you so that I may be spared the consequences,but I have not changed inside.A fiendish person will pretend to have repented,and will proceed cunningly,offering prostrations with feigned kindness,to deceive others.
When someone goes to tell his sins to a Spiritual Father merely because he is afraid of going to hell,even this is not true repentance.
He's not repenting for his sins,he's afraid of going to hell!
True repentance means that one is first aware of his sins,is pained
by them,asks God for forgiveness,and then goes and confesses
them.This is why I always recommend Repentance and Confession
together.I never recommend Confession alone.
Notice,for example,what happens when we have an earthquake.
You see those who have a good disposition will be moved deeply,
they will repent and change their way of life.But the majority of
people keep this fear of God only for a short period of time;and
when the danger is past,they resume their former sinful life.
This is why,when someone told me that there had recently been
a very strong earthquake in his hometown,I told him,"It shook you
up,but did it really wake you up?" "It woke us up,"he said.Then I said,
"Sure,but you'll go back to sleep again".
Taken from ,Elder Paisios of Mount Athos Spiritual Counsels Vol.3