Γέροντας Εφραίμ Φιλοθεΐτης -Ο Βίος κάθε Χριστιανού

ELDER PAISIOS-WE MUST BE AWARE OF OUR ILLNESS

-Elder,I often see and judge the failings and defects of others.

 
-Do you now what your illness is?
-No
-That's why you know the illness of others.If you knew your own illness,you wouldn't know the illness of others.I am not saying you shouldn't be concerned with their pain and suffering,but you mustn't preoccupy yourself with their faults.If a person is not concerned with his self,the tempter devil will lead him to be concerned with other people's faults.If we work on ourselves,then we know ourselves and come to know others as well.Otherwise,we judge others by wrong assumptions we make about ourselves.

 
-Elder,what helps the most in correcting ourselves?

 
-First of all,we need willpower.In a way,willpower provides the good foundation.Secondly,one must become aware that he is sick and take necessary antibiotic treatment;otherwise,if one is sick and hides the sickness,if he refuses to acknowledge it to himself and others, he will suddenly collapse one day before he realises it,and will already be beyond medical help.Let's say someone knows that he has a pretubercular condition that is causing his lack of appetite.People ask him,"Why don't you eat?""And he replies,Oh,I just don't like this food."Then he has aches and pains and can barely walk."Why are you walking like that?"they ask him.And he again says,"Oh,I like to go very slowly,why should i run like crazy."He doesn't admit to them or himself that he has aches and pains and can't walk.Then he has a cough." Why are you coughing?" "It's probably some allergy," he replies.Again,he won't admit that his lungs are a mess.In the meantime,he starts spitting blood but he still refuses to acknowledge his illness and says, "Oh,my throat must be sore!"

-And all this,Elder,simply because he refuses to acknowledge he has tuberculosis?

-Yes,he hides it and he hides from it.And while he is hiding it,he is gradually overtaken by full-scale tuberculosis.The lungs burst,he spits enough blood to fill buckets,then he collapses and the illness is exposed,but by then it is too late.But if he'd acknowledged the symptoms early on and accepted the necessary treatment,he'd have been healthier than the healthy.What I'm trying to say is that when it comes to the spiritual life,those who justify,hide or ignore their passions and faults,will in the end receive such demonic influence that they won't be able to hide.Have you any idea what it is like to accept demonic influence?One becomes like a wild beast,fiercely defensive,foul-mouthed,refusing any help from anyone.
This is why the starting point is for one not to be embarrassed,but to be gladly aware of his illness,his faults.From that point ,he must accept the necessary treatment,the appropriate medicines,and be grateful to his physicians-the Spiritual Father or the Elder-and not resist them.Look at how someone who's ill stretches out his arm to be given a blood transfusion,he's poked with the needle,it hurts,but he accepts the pain for the sake of his health.Or having an operation,we know how painful it is and yet we endure it for the sake of our health.

-Elder,when I know that a very strict remark will help me,why is it that i do not accept it gladly?

 
-Look,you may not be willing to accept it gladly,but do you at least realise that this is not right?
-Yes ,i do.
-Well then,if you realise it,that's something.You see,a person who is ill takes a pill that may be bitter as poison,but he accepts it better than candy,simply because he understands that it will help him.If we don't accept the bitter medicine,we can't expect to be cured.To be strengthened by Christ,one must recognise his weakness and take the medicine.
Taken from ELDER PAISIOS OF MOUNT ATHOS,Spiritual Counsels Vol3 "Spiritual Struggle"

π. Αθανάσιος Λεμεσού - Το αντίδωτο του φαρισαϊσμού

Μία ὁμιλία τοῦ Πανιερωτάτου Μητροπολίτου Λεμεσοῦ κ.κ. Ἀθανασίου ἡ ὁποία ἀφορᾷ, κυρίως, στὴ διαφορὰ μεταξὺ πίστης καὶ θρησκείας. Τί σημαίνει νὰ εἶσαι πραγματικὰ εὐλαβὴς καὶ εὐσεβὴς καὶ ὄχι εὐσεβιστὴς καὶ ἁπλὸς τηρητὴς κάποιων ἐντολῶν τοῦ Θεοῦ (ὁμιλία στὸ πλοῖο ἀπὸ Ἅγιον Ὅρος, 16-7-2004).

Ο μικρός Δημήτρης με το διορατικό χάρισμα..

Τόν Σεπτέμβριο κάποιου έτους στο ογκολογικό τμήμα του Πανεπιστημιακού Νοσοκομείου του Ρίου επικρατεί μεγάλη αναστάτωση. Ο μικρός Δημητράκης ζητούσε επειγόντως τον ιερέα του Νοσοκομείου. Ήθελε οπωσδήποτε να κοινωνήση.

Ήταν 13 ετών. Ενάμιση περίπου χρόνο βρισκόταν στην συγκεκριμένη κλινική. Ένας μικρός πονοκέφαλος τον ώδήγησε εκεί. Οι γιατροί διέγνωσαν καρκίνο του εγκεφάλου. Η καταγωγή του ήταν από το Φίερι της Αλβανίας. Οι γονείς του αβάπτιστοι. Έμεναν αρκετά χρόνια στην Πάτρα. Αυτός, λίγο μετά την είσοδό του στο Νοσοκομείο, θέλησε να βαπτιστή. Άκουγε για τον Χριστό και ήθελε να γίνη «παιδί» Του. Βαπτίστηκε «εις το όνομα του Πατρός και του Υϊού και του Αγίου Πνεύματος», κατόπιν κατηχήσεως βέβαια.

Όλοι τον αγαπούσαν πολύ στην κλινική. Ο καρκίνος είχε προχωρήσει αρκετά και ήδη του είχε στερήσει την όράση. Δεν έβλεπε καθόλου, τίποτε και κανέναν. Άκουγε όμως με μεγάλη και θαυμαστή υπομονή. Δεν παραπονιόταν. Έλεγε ότι ο Θεός τον αγαπά πολύ. Προσευχόταν και παρακαλούσε και τους γονείς του να κάνουν το ίδιο.

Όσοι τον επισκέπτονταν καταλάβαιναν να υπάρχη κάτι διαφορετικό σ΄ αυτό το παιδί. Μιλούσε συνέχεια για τον Θεό. Ήταν πάντα ευγενικό και χαρούμενο. Το πρόσωπο του έλαμπε. Ήθελε να κοινωνάη συχνά των Τιμίων Δώρων. Όταν κάποιες φορές η μητέρα του ήταν σε κάποιον άλλο χώρο της κλινικής, φώναζε: «Μητέρα, ελα γρήγορα. Φτάνει ο παππούλης με τον Χριστό. Ανεβαίνει τα σκαλιά. Έλα να με ετοιμάσης». Και έτσι γινόταν. Ο ιερέας ερχόταν και εύρισκε τον Δημητράκη καθισμένο στο κρεββάτι του, με ανοιχτό το στόμα κάνοντας με ευλάβεια τον σταυρό του. Ενώ δεν εγνώριζε την ακριβή ώρα της προσελεύσεως του ιερέως με τα Τίμια Δώρα, με διορατικό χάρισμα τον έβλεπε να έρχεται, μολονότι παρεμβάλλονταν δυο κλειστές πόρτες πού εχώριζαν το δωμάτιο του από τον διάδρομο πού ερχόταν ο ιερέας. Αυτό το βεβαιώνει και η ευλαβής κυρία Μαρία Γαλιατσάτου η οποία εθελοντικώς εφρόντιζε το παιδί αυτό. «Κυρία Μαρία, θέλω κάτι να σας πώ», της είπε μία ημέρα. «Όταν έρχεται ο παππούλης με τον Χριστό, τον βλέπω στις σκάλες πού ανεβαίνει και δίπλα του υπάρχουν δυο ψηλοί, όμορφοι άνθρωποι με ολόασπρη στολή πού γέρνουν προς το Άγιο Ποτήριο και με ανοιχτά τα χέρια τους το προστατεύουν».

Κάποτε τον ρώτησε ο γιατρός: «Τί κάνεις, Δημητράκη, πώς πάμε;». Του απάντησε: «Κύριε γιατρέ, μπορώ να σας πώ από κοντά. Εγώ είμαι καλά. Εσείς μην στενοχωριέστε πού έφυγε η γυναίκα σας. Ο Θεός θα είναι μαζί σας γιατί είστε καλός άνθρωπος». Ο γιατρός έμεινε λίγο ακίνητος. Κανείς δεν ήξερε το θλιβερό γεγονός πού είχε συμβή την προηγούμενη ήμερα στο σπίτι του, ότι δηλαδή η γυναίκα του τον εγκατέλειψε και πήρε άλλον άνδρα.

«Αυτό είναι παιδί του Θεού», έλεγαν όσοι το γνώριζαν.

Την τελευταία φορά πού κοινώνησε δεν μπορούσε πλέον να σταθή καθιστός στο κρεββάτι αλλά υποδέχθηκε με χαρά και λαχτάρα τον Χριστό ξαπλωμένος. «Ευχαριστώ πολύ», ψέλλισε και μετά εκοιμήθη.

Ο ιερέας, όταν την άλλη μέρα πήγε στο νεκροτομείο να διάβαση στον Δημητράκη το τρισάγιο, είπε: 

«Τέτοιο λείψανο πρώτη φορά στην ζωή μου βλέπω. Το πρόσωπο του είναι χαμογελαστό, λάμπει και έχει το χρώμα του κεχριμπαριού».

Οι γονείς του αγάπησαν τον Χριστό πολύ και θέλουν και αυτοί να βαπτιστούν.

Little Dimitri with the gift of insight...

In September of a certain year, there was a great deal of turmoil observed in the Department of Oncology of the University Hospital of Rion. Little Dimitri was asking urgently for the Hospital's priest. He was insisting on immediately receiving Holy Communion...
He was 13. He had been in that specific clinic for about one and a half years. A minor headache had led him there. The doctors had diagnosed brain cancer. His native town was Fieri of Albania; his parents unbaptized. They had lived in Patra for several years. Shortly after his admission to the Hospital, the young boy had asked to be baptized. He had heard about Christ, and wanted to become a "child" of His. He was baptized, "in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit" - after the necessary catechesis of course.
Everyone in the clinic was extremely fond of him. The cancer had progressed considerably, and had by now deprived him of his sight. He was entirely unable to see, anything and anyone. But he could listen, with the utmost and amazing patience. He never complained. He would say that God loved him very much. He prayed, and would ask his parents to do the same.
All those who visited him could perceive that there was something different in that boy. He spoke constantly about God. He was always courteous and happy. His face shone. He wanted to partake of the Precious Gifts frequently. When his mother would sometimes be in another area of the clinic, he would shout out to her:
"Mother, come quickly! Papa is coming, with Christ! He is coming up the stairs! Come and get me ready!"
And that was exactly what would happen: the priest would come, and he would find little Dimitri sitting upright in his bed, with his mouth wide open and crossing himself with reverence. Even though he never knew the exact time of the priest's arrival, he could "see" him coming, with his gift of insight - and despite the two closed doors that came between his room and the corridor that the priest was coming from. This has been verified by the pious Mrs. Maria Galiatsatou, who had volunteered to look after that boy.
"Mrs. Maria, I want to tell you something", he said to her one day. "When Papa comes together with Christ, I can see him approaching as he walks up the stairs, and next to him are two tall, beautiful people with pure white gowns, who lean towards the Holy Chalice to protect it, with their arms outstretched."
One time, when the doctor asked him: "How are you, my little Dimitri?"
He replied: "Mister Doctor, can I tell you something privately? I am just fine. But you shouldn't worry so much because your wife went away. God will be with you, because you are a good person."
The doctor remained frozen for an instant. No-one else knew about the grievous incident that had occurred the previous day at his place: that his wife had abandoned him, to be with another man.....
"Now that is a child of God" was what those who had met him would say.
The last time that he received Holy Communion, he was unable to sit up in his bed, but he did receive Christ with joy and longing as he lay there.
"Thank you very much", he whispered and then went to sleep forever. When the priest went to the morgue the next day to read the Trisaghion Prayer over little Dimitri, he remarked:

«It's the first time in my life that I have seen a corpse like this. His face was smiling...it was aglow.... and it had the colour of amber».

 His parents came to love Christ very much, and they now want to be baptized also.... 

 * One of the signs that Orthodoxy acknowledges in a reposed saintly person is also the colour of the skin, which takes on a translucent amber appearance.

 Taken from the book: "ASCETICS IN THE WORLD" , pp.378–380, ISBN: 978-960-89593-2-3,
Publications of the Sacred Retreat «Saint John the Forerunner», Metamorphosis, Chalkidiki

Non-Action is Essential for Spiritual Growth..

Non-Action is a state of selflessness and self-abandonment. It is when we give up our total dependence on our own thinking and analysis for our actions and instead rely on direction from God. Hieromonk Damascene says, "When we catch ourselves trying to solve our personal problems with our minds, we realize the futility of this enterprise and give up the Problems to the Personal Absolute. We cease trying to be our own savior, and we commend ourselves to the mercies of our true Savior."

This notion of non-action is one of the primary reasons people fail in their spiritual life. It is because they are trusting and relying on themselves. Abba Dorotheos says, "I know of no fall that does not come from trusting one's own judgment" (Discourses and Sayings p. 126) Hieromonk Damascene points out, "Even if a self-opinionated person calls upon Christ to save him, he is still seeking salvation on his own terms and in his own time (which usually means immediately). He makes his petitions or demands in order to feel better and make his path easier, rather than to know objective truth and be united with his Creator, which is the very purpose of his existence."

How do we practice Non-Action?
Hieromonk damascene advises,
"We must come before our Creator and Savior without an preconceived opinions. We must seek salvation on His terms and in His time, even if it requires that we endure worse suffering that we knew before!"
We cannot expect Him to relieve us of all our burdens now and once-for-all. We must trust that He will continually save us, perfect us through His grace step by step, as long as we submit ourselves to His will.

Hieromonk Damascene says,
"In letting go of our will to prevail through ambitious striving, we find that the will of our Creator is accomplished naturally and spontaneously through us.... When we do His will instead of our own, good appears of its own accord, flowing effortlessly into our life. There is no frustration, no dissatisfaction.
On practicing non-action, we do not try to heal ourselves; rather we allow ourselves to be healed... We find that our problems find their own solution, spontaneously"

This idea of Non-Action does not mean we do not have any thoughts. Any attempt, attempt to stop our thinking is but another prideful effort. What is needed is to develop the ability to observe our thoughts, seeing how they often represent our selfish needs and desires. In observing them, we become watchful and they then end without impacting our action.

This way of Non-Action is the natural way to spiritual healing.

Adapted from Christ the Eternal Tao by Hieromonk Damascene, pp 322-324

Can a sinner repent of his sins in ten days?

                           By Saint Nikolai Velimirovich.

Can a sinner repent of his sins in ten days? According to the immeasurable compassion of God he can. During the reign of Emperor Maurice, there was a well-known bandit in the vicinity of Constantinople. He inspired fear and trembling both within the capital and without. One day, the Emperor Maurice himself sent the robber a cross as a sign of faith that he would do him no harm if he surrendered. The robber took the cross and surrendered. Arriving in Constantinople, he fell before the feet of the emperor and begged for forgiveness. The emperor kept his word, had mercy on him and released him. Immediately after that, the robber became gravely ill and sensed that death was drawing near. He bitterly repented of all his sins and tearfully prayed to God that He forgive him, as the emperor had forgiven him. He shed so many tears at prayer that his handkerchief was completely soaked. After ten days of weeping and praying, the repentant man reposed. The same night he passed away, his physician saw a wondrous vision in a dream: when the robber had given up his soul, there gathered around him black, manlike demons with pieces of paper on which were written all his sins. Two radiant angels also appeared. The angels set a scale between them, and the joyful demons placed all those papers on it, weighing down their side of the scale; but the other side was empty. The angels held counsel: ``What shall we place on it? Let us seek something good in his life!'' And then that handkerchief soaked with tears of repentance appeared in the hands of one angel. The angels quickly placed it on their side of the scale and it outweighed all the demons' papers. Then the black demons fled, howling sorrowfully, and the angels took the soul of the repentant thief and carried it to Paradise, glorifying the man-loving God.